We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
Kim Min Kyoung!
(Kim Min Kyoung, the fairy of eating show)
- Lee Ki Chan! - Lee Ki Chan!
(Lee Ki Chan, a Hollywood actor who came back as a singer)
- Great Library! - Hello.
(Great Library, the popular YouTube creator)
The members of a newcomer girl group,
Lu and Gaga of NATURE!
I've seen Ki Chan since he was a rookie...
- 20 years ago. - Yes.
- He hasn't changed at all. - I think he's even more handsome.
- He's so handsome. - Thank you.
Do you have any secrets behind it?
I made my debut...
- when I was in high school. - That's right.
No one thought I was in high school.
- That's true. - I looked older than my age.
You looked older than your age?
- He seemed mature. - Right.
Look at that.
- Back then... - Were you a teenager back then?
- Yes. That show was "Gayo Top 10". - He was a high school student.
- Were you singing "Please"? - Yes.
- He was 18. - He's a high school student,
but he looks like he's an adult who can legally smoke.
I heard Great Library has been a big fan since he was a child.
- Really? - Thank you.
Whenever I went to a karaoke, I sang his song,
"Please".
I was told that I have a similar singing voice to his.
- So I was proud of myself. - My goodness.
Things are getting complicated.
Great Library, could you sing a bit of Ki Chan's song for us?
Sure. Please add echo effect to my mic.
Okay.
("Please" by Lee Ki Chan)
(I still remember her dark brown eyes)
(Gazing)
Please don't look at me.
That was great.
- I'm sorry. - I can see he wasn't a huge fan.
(He simply likes to sing his song.)
Ki Chan's voice is so great for autumn songs.
- It suits the season. - Right.
My new song will be released soon.
- The song title is "Earthling". - "Earthling"?
Could you sing a Capella just a few measures?
("Earthling" by Lee Ki Chan)
(Everything looks blurry)
(And I can't see clearly)
(His voice is so sweet.)
(The sentimental voice of the prince of ballad)
(His class is eternal.)
You have more than 2 million subscribers, right?
I have 1.87 million subscribers.
Why did you correct me?
I meant to exaggerate the number a bit for his sake.
- So you have 187 subscribers? - No. 1.87 million.
- Oh, right. - 187 subscribers?
He would be called Small Library instead of Great Library.
(She almost turned him into Small Library.)
Min Kyoung is also popular as a one-person online content creator.
Why did you name your channel "General Min Kyoung"?
Words like "fairy" would've been nice too.
She chose "General" instead.
But if I called myself a fairy...
I thought I should act cute like this.
You look like a general right now.
Right?
"General" sounded more like me.
It felt more comfortable.
It's been one month since NATURE made their debut.
Would you like to say hello to the viewers?
1, 2, 3.
We'll make you feel good. We're NATURE.
- Hello. - Hello.
"We'll make you feel good."
Hello. I'm the leader of NATURE. Lalali, lalala, lalalu, I'm Lu.
It's nice to meet you.
- Lalali, lalala, lalalu - Lalalu
Everyone, this will be very rare footage because...
- she won't do it two months later. - That's right.
(Save the embarrassing moment of NATURE as a rookie.)
Gaga doesn't sound natural. Is she from a foreign country?
Yes. I'm Chinese.
Wasn't it hard to learn Korean?
I meant to say to my teacher,
"Teacher, have a good night."
- But I said, "Have a good death." - "Have a good death."
- "Have a good death." - "Have a good death."
"Have a good death."
(We hope Gaga's Korean will improve soon.)
We have three stories as always.
Show us the keywords please.
"I Oppose This Marriage".
"My Husband's Affair".
- "The Angry Family". - "The Angry Family".
The titles sound so serious.
The parents opposed the marriage,
but then the husband had an affair, and the whole family got angry.
It's all connected to each other.
(They're like chapters of one story.)
"My Husband's Affair".
I have a male role. I'll invite the actor who worked in Hollywood,
Lee Ki Chan.
Show us a Hollywood actor's acting skills.
(Embarrassed)
Hello. I'm a housewife in my 30s,
and I have three daughters.
I'm so busy doing house chores and looking after my children.
However, I have a big problem...
that causes me so much grief.
(Phone ringing sound?)
"Honey, where are you?"
"Why didn't you answer my calls?"
Say this line in English.
"Why are you calling so much?"
"I'm here in front of Mokpo sea."
"I'm hanging up."
"See you later."
My husband, who travels across the country,
loves sea fishing.
- Sea fishing? - Fishing?
He's so brazen.
My husband...
"My fishing rod is broken. Have it fixed for me."
"Carry it carefully and send it by courier."
- He makes me run his errands. - Oh, gosh.
The problem is that I'm carrying...
- my 4th child. - Her 4th child?
- That's amazing. - Her fourth child?
"My goodness. Honey."
Hold on a second. Right now...
Up until the middle, I thought he was just obsessive,
but as the story continues, it seems he's a lot worse than we thought.
- She's carrying her fourth baby. - That's right.
It's just ridiculous.
- Make him look meaner than that. - Okay.
"Honey, we should start buying baby supplies."
"Oh, I forgot. I need a new fishing rod."
"A fishing rod and a reel... What else do I need?"
He sounded really mean this time.
"Honey, will you go with me for my regular checkup?"
"I can't go!"
- Good grief. - "I'm tired!"
That's good.
His eyes sparkle when he goes fishing.
Then why can't he think of his soon-to-be-born child?
I don't think I can live with him if he keep going like this...
even after our fourth child is born.
Please help my husband...
come to his senses.
- Nice. - That was incredible.
How was Ki Chan's Hollywood style acting performance?
"I can't go!"
(A Hollywood style bad guy)
- He's scary. - That's good.
"How can I take you to a hospital? I should go fishing right now."
- Go back to your seat. - Okay.
(He returns to being a nice guy.)
Let's meet our guest.
(Whose husband is crazy about fishing?)
Ki Chan and Great Library, please escort her.
(Cheon Yoo Jeong)
(Ki Chan and Great Library escorts her carefully.)
(You can tell she's at the end of her term.)
Min Kyoung, get up. We know how she feels.
- Yes, we do. - Isn't it hard...
- to sit down and get up? - We know how she must feel.
Stretch out your legs.
Will you be fine?
To be honest, it's a little painful.
- Right now? - My pelvis hurts a lot.
- Have you always had this problem? - Since I got pregnant,
my pelvic pain got worse.
Seeing that you sent us your story despite your condition,
you must've been very stressed out.
It must be hard to even rest at home.
I felt like I was going to die.
You're pregnant with your fourth baby.
How long has this problem been going on?
For the last eight years.
- He's been like that for that long? - Yes.
- He goes fishing whenever he... - Yes.
(No way.)
We didn't have this problem in early years of our marriage.
After I gave birth to our oldest child,
and he went fishing with his younger brother,
he started to get hooked on fishing.
That's when he got hooked on fishing.
- I bet you hate you brother-in-law. - Yes, I hate him.
- She didn't hesitate at all. - Why didn't he come on the show?
How often does your husband go fishing?
He's crazy.
(She sums it up perfectly.)
- "He's crazy." - That isn't an exaggeration.
He pretty much goes every day.
- He goes whenever he's off work. - Whenever he's off work?
- He doesn't go on weekdays, right? - He goes on weekdays too.
- And weekends. - Then when does he stay at home?
He's never home when he's off work.
(There's no holiday for fishing.)
Since he likes sea fishing so much,
he goes to Gangwon Province, Taean, and Mokpo.
- He travels across the country. - He goes far from home.
He once said he'd step out briefly and didn't come home for six days.
- What? - He was away for six days...
(He has a weird concept of time and space.)
- He said he'd step out briefly? - He has a weird concept.
Has he gone overseas too?
No. He went to Haenam.
- Haenam? - The southern end of the peninsula.
When I talked about it, he got angry at me.
- Why? - Why?
He said going out for fun isn't a wrong thing to do.
- He's shameless. - Did he apologize?
No. He has yet to apologized to me.
- Until now? - That's right.
He still gets angry when I bring it up.
(My goodness. He's unbelievable.)
Since he's been into fishing that much for a few years until now,
- Yes. He... - it must've cost him a lot.
For the past eight years, he spent tens of thousands of dollars...
on fishing.
He has six fishing rods in the veranda...
and eight reels.
He also has three more reels at his parents' house.
Since he enjoys boat fishing, it costs him to ride on a boat.
Also, he spends money on gas as he drives to different areas.
He spends at least 200 to 300 dollars for every trip.
- At least 200 to 300 dollars? - For every trip?
I told him before...
that we should buy baby things.
Then my husband said,
"I just have to buy 1 more fishing rod and 1 more reel."
He didn't even listen to you?
He didn't. He said what he had to say and ended the conversation.
He was preoccupied.
If you wanted to come on the show,
you must've talked to your husband about this issue many times.
I talked to him many times, but he always said,
"Okay."
Did he not say anything else?
No. And when I told him that we'd appear on Hello...
because I sent our story,
he said, "Let's see which one of us will win."
- "Let's see who wins"? - He's not ashamed?
- He's not. - He'll learn his lesson today.
- Let's see. - Okay.
I've been watching this show for a long time...
since I was a non-celebrity.
Many people think that this show...
- is scripted. - Many people think so.
"How could they appear on TV in a situation like that?"
- That's right. - Exactly.
"I would've been too ashamed to be on the show if I were them."
- But I understand now. - They're not ashamed of themselves.
- They don't realize it. - That's right.
They're so proud of themselves.
- But we help them realize. - Yes, we do.
- I see it's an unscripted show now. - This is an unscripted show.
If what she told us is true,
her husband will be humiliated.
He can't get away with it.
He'll have to tell the story from a different perspective.
Let's meet her husband. Where are you?
Hello.
This applause...
is because you came out here. Nothing else.
(Brace yourself.)
I'm sure you have something to say to defend yourself. Am I right?
Yes. Why else would I be here?
We should hear him out.
I didn't understand why she consider this as a problem at first.
Of course.
Since she's much younger than me...
- She's 10 years younger than me. - I see.
So I thought she couldn't understand me because she's too young.
Did you think it was because of her age?
I made a lot of effort.
I used to go fishing 4 or 5 days a week.
Since she got pregnant with our fourth child,
I go fishing only once a week now.
- Once a week? - I reduced my trips a lot.
Do you look after your children when you're home?
I try my best. When I'm home, I always bathe the kids.
I've been bathing them for a few years now.
- Until now? - Yes.
Recently, I had a back problem,
so I couldn't bathe them for the past three months.
She forgot the nice things I did for her.
It looks like she only remembers the things I did to let her down.
The knife we prepared just became blunt.
- He bathed the kids every evening. - He bathed the kids.
- All the three of them. - This is what really happened.
Just as I told you, my pelvis hurts a lot.
- I couldn't even lie down. - Of course, it's hard.
Since it's hard for me to even walk, I have no choice...
but to ask him to do it. That's why I asked him to bathe them.
But he acted as if he did me a big favor.
- He took credit to himself? - Yes.
- As if he'd been doing it so long? - Yes.
(He smiles with embarrassment.)
When your wife was thinking of buying baby supplies,
did he really ask you to get his fishing equipment fixed?
Yes, I did.
It can be fixed at a certain company,
so I need to send my tool to the company.
When I ask my wife to do so,
she takes care of it meticulously.
- She's meticulous. - Gosh.
(Gosh. I'm so frustrated.)
But you didn't listen to her when she talked about baby supplies.
- Baby supplies? - Yes.
- Did you hear her saying it? - You just don't remember, right?
He definitely heard her saying it.
"Definitely"?
Does someone come to your house to pick up the fishing rod?
No. I have to take his fishing rod or reel...
- To where? - to the post office.
- In your condition? - You send it by courier.
Yes. With my three children.
- With your children too? - My goodness.
- With the three children. - With your children too?
(What did you just say?)
How do you go there with three children?
- Two of them hold my hands. - What about the last one?
- One of them walks alone. - Oh, gosh.
- One of them walks alone. - Yes.
And you yell at your kid, "Stay on the sidewalk!"
- Exactly. - "Come over here!"
"You can't cross the red light." Like this, right?
Do you carry the fishing rod in your mouth?
- Goodness gracious. - I just carry it in one hand.
- Or I put it in a fishing rod bag. - You carry the bag?
You carry the bag on your shoulders, hold two kids' hands,
- and yell at one kid? - Yes.
That's how I go to the post office.
- Is there another story? - My husband...
- calls me on his business trip. - What does he say?
He asks me to send his fishing rod to him.
- On a business trip? - I guess it was a one day trip.
Yes. Since it was too heavy,
I said I couldn't send it to him.
- He began to sulk. - And then?
- He got mad. He hung up on me. - How long...
- Did he stay mad for a while? - He should be scolded.
You could've rented fishing gear.
Did you really have to make her go all the way there with the kids?
I couldn't find a rental shop there.
No way. He's lying.
- He's lying. - Gosh.
Many professional gamers...
only play games with their own keyboard and mouse.
- Some people do that. - Even at an internet cafe,
they use their own keyboard and mouse.
- Really? - It seems to me...
he's the type that refuses to fish without his own equipment.
That's the case, right?
Yes, it's true.
(I'm speechless.)
If he's a master, it probably costs him a lot.
- That's right. - How much does it cost a month?
- Please tell us. - Between 500 and 600 dollars.
- That's when you go once a week. - 1,500 dollars in total.
So it costs you 2,500 dollars if you go fishing 5 times a week.
- For a month, right? - You're right.
- Roughly, right? - Yes.
Seeing that he doesn't know very well,
- you must manage money. - I don't do it.
- You don't? - Then who does it?
My husband does.
- What? - Then why doesn't he know?
- Since when? - Since the early years of marriage.
He gave me money for living cost.
But he made me feel bad about receiving and spending that money.
Not long ago, I bought a few hair pins for my daughters.
They needed new ones.
However, their hair pins were not hundreds of dollars,
or thousands of dollars. They were only 2 or 3 dollars.
- She must've been sad. - Gosh.
- It must've been hard. - She got teary.
He said,
"You could've made them by yourself. Why did you buy them?"
- He told you to make hair pins? - Make hair pins?
You could've made your own fishing rod. Why did you buy it?
You could've just picked up a tree branch.
- That's a good point. - That's not all.
My husband has never given me a birthday gift until now.
- What? - My goodness.
- When you guys were dating... - He didn't back then either.
He made seaweed soup once, and that was all.
Then what did you like so much about him?
I think I was blinded by love.
- Gosh. Seriously. - How about during your pregnancy?
He bought me what I needed only when I begged him.
- Oh, no. - Also,
I needed new clothes since my belly got much bigger.
I asked him for money...
and bought shirts that are worth 5 or 10 dollars.
But he wears shoes, clothes, and even slippers...
- that are designer brand products. - Gosh.
He has everything. Most of his clothes are designer clothes.
Whenever I spend money,
I call him to tell him.
That's so cheap.
I tell him how much I spent on what product.
- I have to tell him that. - Do you still do that?
- He makes her report to him. - Or else, he gets mad at me.
Let me ask you something. You buy expensive things.
Then why do you get upset when she spends a few dollars?
My wife is good with her hands.
- So... - Pardon me?
- What did he say? - My wife is good with her hands.
(He encourages her to lead a self-sufficient life.)
What did he say?
- Your wife is good with her hands? - Stop talking nonsense.
(Stop talking nonsense.)
- He's unbelievable. - Sir, if we take a vote now,
I think you'll get all 200 votes.
We'll give you a chance to defend yourself.
You never bought her any gifts before you married her.
You don't give her a gift even on her birthday.
What's the reason?
I made seaweed soup for her on her birthday.
I woke up early to do so.
- Well... - Seaweed soup... But...
Her mom can make her soup too.
- She's not living with her mom now. - He's hopeless.
Didn't the thought come to your mind?
I once asked her what she wanted for her birthday.
I said I would buy anything she wanted.
But she said she didn't want anything.
She said seaweed soup was enough.
- That's why? - Yes.
- All right. It turns out... - She...
- was considerate of you. - So you remember that she said it?
It turns out that he listens to his wife all the time.
- That's true. - Okay. In that case...
A pregnant woman needs maternity clothes.
- You know that, right? - I gave her money,
and she bought maternity clothes.
You only gave her five dollars.
- I only bought clothes this time. - This time again?
- Only this time. - I see. What about your first kid?
My mom bought two pieces of clothes during my first pregnancy.
I wore the same clothes during my second pregnancy.
I wore them again during my third pregnancy.
Since those clothes didn't fit me anymore,
I told my husband, and he gave me...
5 dollars and 10 dollars.
I bought non-branded clothes.
Is there a five-dollar maternity outfit?
Yes. I bought a large loose T-shirt.
- I brought my two kids... - Min Kyoung, take off your clothes.
All right.
Once we finish recording this show...
I'm serious.
- Calm down. - I'll give her right now.
- I can take it off. - Don't do that.
- It makes me want to cry. - My goodness.
- I know. - Gosh. Seriously.
Sir, let's be honest since you're here.
Please be honest with us and tell us everything.
Your wife is frustrated...
because you shouldn't spend so much if you're so strict to your wife.
Then she would've thought it was your personality.
- She's right. - She wouldn't have been upset.
That's what she's saying.
I don't buy things often.
I only buy things once or twice a year.
But when I buy things, I try to buy branded products...
- even if they are expensive. - The good ones.
How much did you pay for the branded shoes?
- The sneakers? About 150 dollars. - About 150 dollars.
How much do you usually spend for a branded shirt?
About 150 to 200 dollars.
(She's sad.)
Usually, when you have your first child,
your husband cares a lot.
Right. He stays with the wife.
How was he when you were pregnant with the first child?
In the early period of my pregnancy, I craved for skate sashimi.
So I asked him to buy me skate sashimi.
He just kept saying okay.
I pestered him for two months.
"I want to eat skate sashimi, honey."
"Please buy me skate sashimi."
When our friend came, he ordered skate sashimi.
That was the only time.
One day, I asked him for duck meat.
I pestered him for two months again.
And he still didn't buy it for me.
My friend felt so bad for me...
and took me out to eat duck meat.
So I ate it until I was too full to eat.
Until she was too full to eat.
- Your friend treated you. - Yes.
I am really curious about this.
I wouldn't care if this part doesn't go on air.
Why is your mind so crooked?
- I can't understand him. - I can't understand him either.
You are being so cheap.
You make your wife beg you for food.
She's not a child. She's your wife.
The day she asked me to buy her skate sashimi,
I came home around 11pm.
There was a skate restaurant nearby, so I went there.
But it was closed that day.
These days, you can get almost everything delivered.
My family only eat skate sashimi from that restaurant.
- Your family only eats that. - They do it really well.
Our restaurant ones aren't good. Theirs is really good.
Do you not eat skate from other restaurants?
At the time, I didn't care where it was from.
- I was just craving for skate. - You were craving for skate.
After listening to him, this came to my mind.
When you talk to your husband,
you must nearly die of frustration.
- Right. - It's that frustrating, isn't it?
- He's the type... - He's the sly type.
He gives you all kinds of reasons.
- After listening to him... - "Never mind it. I won't eat it."
- What do you say? - You just give up.
I feel as if something is stuck right here.
We talked to him only for a short while, and I'm frustrated.
If I had something long and spiky, I would poke him with it.
I need a really long one.
- A spear. - A spear.
- He's so annoying. - We can catch him.
Two months ago, we were having an argument,
and I got a stomach cramp.
I couldn't move.
I was crouched on the floor. So I ended up calling 911.
He came to the hospital when I was getting an IV fluid.
And he said, "You deserved it."
(You deserved it.)
What?
- Why would he say that? - "You kept talking back to me."
Why did he say you deserved it?
Because I kept talking back to him and didn't listen to him.
(I lose.)
Among all the people I've seen this year, he's the worst.
- Seriously. - I've never seen someone like him.
Among all the people I've seen this year, he's the worst.
He never gets worked up like this.
- How... - Sometimes I make bad jokes.
- He was joking. - That's even worse.
- Don't say that. - Don't do that.
Don't say that you were joking.
Or perhaps his tongue slipped and pronounced it wrongly.
Perhaps he meant to say "It's too hot in here."
- "It's too hot in here." - It was too hot.
- That's what he meant. - Let me ask you this.
How did you say it?
- "You deserved it." - Tell us how you said it.
(That's the most annoying way you can say it.)
Is that how you said it?
- "You deserved it." - Try saying it again.
(That's how he said it.)
Is that how you said it?
- That's really bad. - So he...
- said it this way. - In dramas, a man would...
get really worried and with tearful eyes he'd say,
- "You deserved it." - "You deserved it."
- Right. It should've been that. - Then...
she would've thought he was joking.
"You deserved it."
- My goodness. - I said it because...
I guess maybe I shouldn't have said it.
But you are not seeing the whole picture. I was worried,
so I went to the hospital.
You mean you said it...
- as a joke. - Right.
I am sure you didn't really mean it.
- Then I would be an animal. - Right.
He's realized it. He realized how bad that was.
He said he wasn't a human if he did that.
He was going his way, but he changed the direction a bit.
He's realized he couldn't keep doing that.
(He's so annoying.)
When was the time you were the most upset?
During my third pregnancy, my water broke.
- Goodness. - Oh, my.
So I went to a hospital and got an IV fluid.
I called my husband.
When I told him I was at a hospital, he asked me why.
I told him I was getting an IV fluid because my water broke.
And he said, "Okay." He hung up and didn't come.
- No way. - Was it a weekend?
Yes. When I went home,
he was eating with his parents.
He didn't even ask if I was all right.
He still hasn't asked if I was okay that day.
- He didn't apologize. - On your third pregnancy.
- Yes. - I can't understand it.
You are the father. Shouldn't you have run to the hospital?
- Shouldn't you have driven there? - This is why I didn't go.
She said, "I'm going to the hospital today."
"Give me money." So I gave her money.
You were at home, so why didn't you go with her?
She only goes to the hospital when I am resting.
(His body comes first.)
- Please. - Wait.
Wait.
Please...
(I'm getting angry.)
You should get flustered...
and give excuses.
Don't give those ridiculous excuses...
with such a calm voice.
When I work... I tend to get...
stressed out about my job.
I have to deal with customers.
Who on earth doesn't get stressed while working?
When we shoot Hello, we have to put up with people like you.
- This is our job, you see. - We are working too.
(You are the cause of stress.)
We've seen a lot of people...
who are too obsessed with their hobbies.
This was their argument.
- "I don't drink. I don't smoke." - "I don't drink or smoke."
"I don't gamble." Your only hobby is fishing. Right?
- He likes to drink too. - Does he like drinking?
- Does he drink once in a while? - No.
This month, he drank about 20 times.
Does he change when he drinks?
He changes.
- He changes. - Does he have a drinking habit?
- Yes. - Does he become aggressive?
Becoming aggressive is just one thing.
I get scared whenever he drinks outside.
He went to Bundang to drink with his friends.
He left to go home...
and went out of reach for four hours.
So I asked the police...
to track his location.
It turned out he was sleeping in the middle of the highway.
(He was sleeping in the middle of the highway.)
- On the road? - He stopped the car on the side.
When I was pregnant with our third child,
he drank at his parents' home.
While sleeping,
he kicked my stomach by mistake.
- Your stomach. - Yes.
I was 7 months or 8 months into the pregnancy.
- You were in your last months. - Yes.
I told him my stomach hurt, and to take me to the hospital.
When I said that, he said okay and slept in the bathroom.
- My goodness. - So I went to the hospital alone.
After getting treated, I went back home.
When he was going to work, I asked him...
if he knew that I went to the hospital...
because I was in pain after he kicked my stomach.
He said he doesn't remember it.
- Your husband said that? - Yes. He said he doesn't remember.
- He didn't apologize either. - You should've apologized.
Even if he didn't remember it, he should've apologized.
- Isn't that what you should do? - That's what you should do.
When we have a team dinner with Dong Yeob,
if he asks if I ate it all,
even if it wasn't me, I still apologize.
She apologizes well.
People get drunk with alcohol. We get drunk with food.
- We get drunk with food. - When I eat hurriedly,
I can't remember what I ate and what I didn't eat.
So when someone gets upset, I just apologize.
Your husband doesn't do that.
He still hasn't apologized for it.
I think her husband...
doesn't know how to apologize.
- I have no recollection of it. - Even so...
- But... - She said you kicked her.
She wouldn't be making it up.
You didn't remember it because you were drunk.
- But you heard about it. - Yes.
- So you came to know about it. - Right.
Why did you still not apologize?
I don't know why I did that. I feel sorry now.
[VIU Ver] E383 Hello Counselor "Consider Others & Communicate" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
When we first heard her story.
I thought she was frustrated because you were...
- too obsessed with fishing. - That wasn't the problem.
But that's not the problem.
This is ridiculous.
It's like plucking one potato plant stem...
and it coming out with a bunch of potatoes.
We thought fishing was the only problem.
Even magma came out.
We got tricked.
I can't believe this.
Are the people who come here...
all like him?
- No. - No.
If we knew they had this many problems,
we wouldn't have chosen them.
Right.
Their daughters are here.
Let's hear from their daughters about what kind of parents they are.
There they are. She's the eldest.
- My goodness. - What's her name?
- They are cute. - Hello.
They are so cute.
- Who is the eldest? - They are really cute.
The one sitting next to my husband.
- The one with black hair. - The one with black hair.
What's your name?
Hello. I am eight years old. I am Jang Han Byul.
Hello, Han Byul.
- Han Byul. - She's shy.
- She's shy. - Let's talk to the youngest.
How old are you Saet Byul?
Five.
Does your father go fishing often?
Yes.
How often does he go?
Since I was young.
- Since she was young. - He's been fishing since then.
Han Byul,
do you think your mom and dad are in good terms?
No.
They fight often.
How do they fight?
They shout.
Who shouts first?
- Dad? - Dad.
What does he say?
He tells my mom to hurry up.
He tells her to hurry up.
When your mom and dad fight, how do you feel?
- I feel bad. - You feel bad.
It feels bad.
When your mom and dad fight,
what do you and your sisters do?
We get scared.
- They get scared. - They get scared.
- Do you get scared? - Yes.
Of course.
Han Byul got tested at her school a few months ago.
It turned out that she was severely depressed.
- Han Byul? - Yes.
Even though she's just a kid?
The psychological test result said...
she needed treatment.
On the day we got the result back, my husband had the day off.
- That's good. - But he didn't come with us.
He said he had something to do.
I told him the test result on the phone.
- That Han Byul is depressed? - I told him she was depressed...
- and needed... - She needed treatment?
play therapy.
- He asked me how much it'd cost. - He asked that first?
He spends so much on his fishing equipment.
The treatment costs 30 dollars per session.
- You told him that? - Yes.
And he said I was responsible.
- What? - He said that?
He said Han Byul became depressed because I yelled at her a lot,
and he wasn't responsible.
He said the treatment cost too much,
and we couldn't afford it.
That's not exactly what I meant.
We had just moved...
and had to spend more money than usual.
We were having a little financial problems.
Didn't you think you should go fishing a little less?
I didn't go fishing around that time.
- Not at all? - No.
And I think my daughter became depressed...
because she transferred to a new school...
and was bullied there.
I heard.
Gosh, this is frustrating.
Because her family is problematic, she must have become timid,
and that's why she was bullied.
That's not what I thought.
I've been depressed too...
when I lived alone.
People around me...
tried to cheer me up,
but nothing changed as long as I didn't try.
I had to change myself.
Do you feel that way about your daughter too?
She's been diagnosed with diagnosed with depression,
and you think she should overcome it on her own?
(Do not force adult solutions upon children.)
We needed to figure out how serious their daughter's condition is.
We wanted to know if she'd be able to overcome it on her own...
like her dad thinks.
We talked to an expert.
We filmed the session, so let's watch the clip.
We're going to draw...
and play with sand together.
She went to see a therapist.
(Her mental health is being assessed.)
- The test is done through play. - Will you draw a house for me?
Her drawing would reveal her mental state.
(What kind of house is she picturing?)
(She only drew the house.)
There's no family in it.
- There are only two flowers. - What does that mean?
Does anyone live in this house?
(This is the house she imagined.)
No one lives there.
- Has anyone ever lived here? - No.
If you could live here, would live there or not?
I don't want to live there.
My goodness.
(Her mom's heart breaks.)
I've never seen a child draw a house they didn't want to live in.
At this point, it looks quite serious.
She has childhood depression.
(She has serious childhood depression.)
(Many thoughts run through her dad's mind.)
Where is this tree?
- On a beach. - On the beach?
What will happen to this tree eventually?
It'll die.
(It'll die.)
It'll die.
(Shocked)
Is there a way to keep it alive?
- There is no way. - There's no way?
Her depression must have started from insecure attachment...
and then continued to develop.
It must have been heavily affected by her family environment.
(Her family environment must have played a crucial role.)
"When my mom and dad fight".
- "When my mom and dad fight". - "I feel saddest when..."
Han Byul's problematic mental state is...
already affecting her sisters to some extent,
and it will continue to do so.
My goodness.
- How do you feel? - You must be worried.
I feel concerned.
- Are you shocked? - Yes.
What surprised you the most?
Her drawing of the house and when she talked about our fights.
It breaks my heart.
- Do you feel bad? - Yes.
Do you admit that you've fought in front of the kids a lot?
(Do you admit that you've fought in front of the kids too often?)
Korean people tend to depend on self-diagnoses...
and decide which medicine to take on their own...
more than any other OECD countries.
You're playing a mental health expert too right now.
You've already diagnosed your daughter.
"She's fine."
But it's wrong.
The problem is not that simple.
How do you want your husband to change?
I want him to go fishing just a couple of times a month.
It's his hobby, so he couldn't just quit altogether.
Also,
for the past 10 years,
we've never been on any trips together. Aside from fishing trips.
We could just go to a guesthouse or something.
I want to relax for a few days...
without thinking about anything.
Also, I want us to be good parents...
to our kids.
That's all I want.
Let's start from Gaga. Do you think it's a worry?
I definitely think it's a worry.
It feels like I've just eaten 500 sweet potatoes.
I feel so frustrated.
It's a serious worry.
It's a worry, of course.
If I could, I'd press the button a hundred times.
Please don't give Han Byul...
any more bad memories.
Please give her more love.
If you can understand...
how much it would have worried the wife so far,
please press the button!
5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Before we see the result,
let me announce that you lost.
Do you accept the result?
- Yes, I do. - He does.
Do you want to say something to your wife?
I love you so much.
You're the best.
Say something to your kids too.
They're...
my future. They really are.
I'll work hard...
to make my family happy again.
- Are you ready to change? - I have to be.
Are you ready?
(Frozen)
He doesn't seem to understand English.
- What did you say? - The pronunciation was too good.
- Are you ready? - Yes, I am.
(We support your new start.)
Let's see how many votes they got.
I'm scared.
I think it'll be very high.
You can get up to 200 votes.
It'll definitely be over 100.
Let's see.
(How many people thought it was a worry?)
- 60... - 60...
167.
It's one of the highest numbers we've seen.
- "I Oppose This Marriage". - "I Oppose This Marriage".
Hello, I'm a dad in my 40s living in Yangsan, Gyeongsang Province.
Did you all enjoy the Chuseok holidays?
For me,
it was a huge shock.
My only daughter, who is 16 years old,
announced her wedding plans.
- At 16? - In 8th grade?
Or is she in ninth grade?
- She's in 9th grade. - 9th grade?
"Dad, I fell in love with someone."
"I'm going to marry him when I become an adult."
"He's so handsome, and he has such a soft voice."
"I love his personality too. I'm obsessed."
"Can I have your blessing?"
"Well... It's a bit sudden. Who is that guy?"
- Who is it? - His last name is...
- Kang. - Kang?
- Kang? - Gang Dong Won?
- Gang Dong Won. - Gang Dong Won?
- It must be Gang Dong Won. - His first name is...
- Kangta? - Nam.
- Nam? - Nam?
- Kang Nam? - Kang Nam?
"I'm going to marry Kang Nam!"
- Kang Nam? - Seriously?
She wants to marry Kang Nam.
"Those are my plans. Just so you know."
At first, I care much about it.
I didn't take it seriously.
"Where are you?"
"Dad, I'm at Kang Nam's concert."
"Where are you?"
"I'm in Seoul."
"What? What are you doing there?"
"What do you think? I'm walking around Kang Nam's neighborhood."
"I might run into accidentally."
She must really like him.
She wanders around Seoul to meet Kang Nam.
It doesn't end there. "Dad, I can't wait any longer."
"I want to move close to Kang Nam."
Now she lives alone in Seoul to meet Kang Nam.
- At 16? - Alone?
- She's 16. - She's living alone?
Who is this guy called Kang Nam?
Why is my daughter so obsessed with him?
I want my daughter back!
Can you relate?
When I was in eighth grade,
TVXQ made a comeback...
with a song called "Keep Your Head Down".
I fell in love with their performance.
I used to wake up at 5am...
to watch them perform live.
I admired them and wanted to be like them.
That's why I became a singer.
You were influenced by them.
Great Library, you were your wife's fan in the past, right?
Yes. I followed her around.
I just sent her one message every day.
What kind of messages?
- Spam messages? - "I did this today."
"I felt this today."
- Things you felt during the day. - Yes.
She read them, but she didn't reply.
- She didn't. - I continued for months.
- That's a great idea. - That's a great idea.
Min Kyoung, we should send text messages to someone we like.
- Wouldn't he get scared? - No.
No. He would love it.
It will give him ideas about what to eat.
"Today, I ate fried rice. Today, I ate jjajangmyeon."
(She gets it right away.)
Let's bring him in right away.
Please come on out.
(Who's the father worried about his 16-year-old daughter,)
(who's into the singer, Kang Nam?)
(Go Tae Gon)
(Hello.)
Did he really move to Seoul because of Kang Nam?
Yes.
She's been his fan for 4 to 5 years.
It's been a long time. She's been liking him since elementary school.
She kept going back and forth Seoul and Busan for his concert.
She also skipped school for three days.
(She skipped school for 3 days and 2 nights.)
My goodness.
She said she wanted to meet Kang Nam often.
So she got a part time job in Seoul...
and transferred schools as well.
She got a room at a goshiwon and began living alone.
But now, she shares a flat with her friend.
When you first realized...
that her love for Kang Nam was over the line,
didn't you stop her?
He's nervous.
You can wipe your sweat.
I will help you.
(Dong Yeob is kind.)
(Thank you, Dong Yeob.)
People usually sweat here.
(They are shocked.)
People usually sweat the most here.
(He's kind enough to wipe the sweat that are not seen.)
The chest gets really sweaty.
Right. They get sweaty.
Most people would get surprised and hesitant when I do that,
but he was very calm.
(He's very calm.)
He let me take care of it.
(He's funny.)
I think an ordinary father wouldn't allow his daughter...
to move to another place alone.
If I were you, I wouldn't have let her.
Did you sympathize with her...
because you once had a similar experience?
Yes. I used to like the singer of "Wind, Please Stop Blowing".
- Lee Ji Yeon. - Lee Ji Yeon.
When I was in second year of middle school,
- I was a member of her fan club. - Really?
You were a member of Lee Ji Yeon's fan club.
The fan club president...
was a lady around my age.
I think I was in that fan club because of that woman.
He was the fan of the fan club president.
(That was the real reason why he joined the fan club.)
He's a very wise man.
By the way, did your daughter really announce the marriage?
Is that why you came here?
Right.
During this Chuseok,
she suddenly came home unannounced.
When I asked her why she came home,
she said Kang Nam went to Japan for Chuseok.
- He wasn't in Seoul. - He wasn't in Seoul.
She was bored because he was gone.
We were eating with the entire family.
And she said she was going to marry Kang Nam.
She shocked everyone.
So I told her to stop being so ridiculous.
I said it was just ridiculous.
But her eyes got all tearful while eating a meal.
It's too serious to be a joke.
(Her love for Kang Nam is too serious, and it worries him.)
She told everyone that she's going to marry Kang Nam.
If Kang Nam says no, it's over.
(Will his problem be solved then?)
Will that resolve your concern?
I think you don't have to worry that much.
Do you not like Kang Nam?
What has Kang Nam done?
- Why are we... - But it's possible.
He's a foreigner. He's more than 10 years older than her.
- For a celebrity, he is... - What?
He said, "for a celebrity".
- He doesn't... - I am really curious.
He doesn't look handsome, does he?
(What?)
Why would you say that?
He's handsome.
When Kang Nam watches this at home,
- he would be... - He would faint.
He hasn't done anything wrong.
Among the celebrities here,
is there anyone you approve?
Who would you approve?
Who's better between Kang Nam and Lee Ki Chan?
- He's better. - Look at him.
Between Kang Nam and me, who's better?
What?
Between Kang Nam and Great Library, who's better?
- He just hates Kang Nam. - He just hates Kang Nam.
He just hates him for no reason.
He just hates King Nam.
Do you perhaps not like him..
because your daughter likes him too much?
There is a promotional t-shirt for his song "Just Do Well Yourself ".
She's wearing it now.
(It's a promotional t-shirt for Kang Nam.)
When she came home for Chuseok,
she wore that same t-shirt...
for 4 to 5 days without washing it.
(She wore it like it's a tattoo.)
She just keeps wearing that t-shirt.
- She's the true fan. - By the way,
her family would be very upset.
When her parents nag at her, she can just does this.
("Just Do Well Yourself")
(It's the true weapon.)
- She really does that. - Doesn't she?
Whenever I ask her something, she says, "Just do well yourself."
I don't know if she's saying the song title or just teasing me.
Let's talk to his daughter.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello. I am Go Eun Byul,
and I am a 16-year-old fan of Kang Nam.
Hello, Eun Byul.
I am curious about what that t-shirt is for.
"Just Do Well Yourself" is Kang Nam's song title.
Mr. Tae Jin Ah...
printed 1,000 t-shirts.
- Is that one of 1,000 shirt? - Yes.
Then it's a limited edition.
(It's a limited edition t-shirt.)
How did you get it?
When I go to the cafe run by Mr. Tae,
I talk to him for a long time.
- With who? - With Mr. Tae.
- Really? - You talk to Mr. Tae?
Whenever he doesn't have work,
he's always there. He's always there.
- Oh, my head. - He talks to...
his customers a lot.
She's Kang Nam's true fan.
I know Kang Nam's song.
A lot of people must not know about it.
- Can you sing one bar of it? - Yes.
(She starts singing right away.)
(Just do well yourself)
(Don't mind my business)
(Don't nag)
(My gosh.)
When you sing, you can look at other people too.
Why do you only look at your dad?
Did you feel that too?
I did.
Eun Byul, you are still young,
- but you are too into Kang Nam. - Right.
That's why your father came out here.
What do you think about that?
But it's what I like doing.
I don't think it's something he should worry about.
It's what I like.
I am doing a part-time job.
I am studying too.
(You are busted.)
- I don't think you are studying. - She hesitated a bit.
The crew told me earlier.
When they were interviewing her,
she told them that she was going to send a letter here first.
- She was going to do that? - Right.
All the people in my age like Wanna One, EXO,
- or BTS. - Right.
But I am not interested in them.
- You only like Kang Nam. - Yes.
When you mention Kang Nam to your friends, don't they...
(What does her friends think about her love for Kang Nam?)
"Stop talking about Kang Nam."
- Right. - "Get away from me."
We end up getting into a fight.
I once worked at a cafe.
The manager of the cafe...
said Kang Nam was ugly.
He asked why I liked...
an old bachelor who is twice as old as me.
An old bachelor?
I was so upset,
so I quit my job.
(Bye.)
- You were upset. - You were angry.
I understand her. When I used to perform...
a lot at Daehangno, I had two fans...
who were always in school uniform.
They came every day.
Whenever I gave them my autographs, they cried.
(They cried when he gave them his autographs?)
"Tae Gyun." And they cried.
I asked them why they were crying.
"It's so hard to like you."
It's hard to Like you.
"Why is that?"
"My friends keep making fun of me."
(Being Tae Gyun's fan is an extreme job.)
"I am sorry for giving you a hard time."
I remember...
- making their lives hard. - You made their lives hard.
Why do you like him so much?
Why did you fall for him at first?
I liked how crazy he is.
She likes how crazy he is.
How crazy He is?
(He has a unique mentality...)
(that has never been seen before.)
(He's so charming.)
Have you met him in person?
Yes.
At Mr. Tae's cafe...
He's like her teacher.
You saw him at the cafe run by Mr. Tae Jin Ah.
I go there seven times a week.
(She goes to his cafe 7 times a week.)
I go there around 7 to 8am.
I wait until 11pm, until it closes.
I see him quite often. About 10 times a month.
We asked for some photos,
and she brought some. Let's check them out.
(It was a lucky day for her.)
She took a photo with him.
(That t-shirt looks familiar.)
- That's... - She's...
- wearing that t-shirt. - She's wearing the same shirt.
But it looks...
slightly different. "2018" is smaller there.
She washed that one. That one was washed too many times.
I think I wore it backwards.
Backwards?
Show us the back. Is that the backside?
(It's written on both sides.)
- That's it. - Do you just switch sides?
That was it.
(That's amazing.)
She wore it the wrong way.
- That's amazing. - That's a great idea.
On Chuseok, you announced it to everyone.
You said you are going to marry Kang Nam.
You might not...
be Kang Nam's type.
His type of woman is someone who flips her hair...
with the other hand when eating ramyeon.
It's someone who looks pretty when eating ramyeon.
She likes someone who flips her hair while eating ramyeon.
They say you look charming...
if you flip your hair using your other hand.
- Like this. - Like this?
How can you eat the ramyeon then?
Like this.
- How do you eat it? - Like an elephant.
- Like this? - Like this?
Then did you go to the cafe...
and keep doing this? Have you done it in front of him?
Just once. I've done it once while eating pasta.
But I am too fat right now,
so I am trying to lose weight.
And when I go to see Kang Nam, I don't eat all day.
- No way. - My goodness.
(My gosh, honey.)
She goes to that cafe to see Kang Nam.
Did you know about that?
I know that she spends about 400 to 500 dollars a month there.
- At that cafe? - Yes.
It's not a waste of money.
- Of course. She likes him. - It's because...
it gives me a chance...
to see Kang Nam.
Honestly, I have a part-time job only to go to that cafe.
That's what she works for, so she doesn't feel bad.
"For you, I don't want to spend a dollar."
"For Kang Nam,"
"I want to spend all of my money."
She said that once.
Is it true you don't want to spend a dollar for your dad?
Sometimes, I feel that way.
(Dejected)
Sometimes, I feel that way. Sometimes, I don't.
(She doesn't care about her dad.)
I had a surgery because I had a tumor on my ribs,
but she still went to Seoul to see Kang Nam.
I was hospitalized for a month, but she didn't come and see me once.
It made me upset.
How would you feel if you hear that Kang Nam is...
at an hospital?
I would cry.
(Sad)
Why didn't you visit your dad at the hospital?
You didn't visit once.
I didn't think it was serious.
Grandma urged me to visit, but...
Put yourself in Kang Nam's shoes.
Would you want to marry someone like you?
(He must be angry.)
Great Library is angry.
- Think about it. - You neglect your family.
- That's right, - Great Library has a point.
I have a question. Do you go to the cafe by yourself?
Do you go with a friend?
(Glancing over)
- Is she a friend? - She looked to the side.
I go to the cafe with her sometimes.
Okay. You must be worried...
even if you aren't as worried as her dad.
She stays out until late at night.
- At night? - One time, she called me.
When I answered the phone, she said that...
a man was following her.
She said that.
When was that? She stays out until late at night.
It was 2am or 3am.
- 2am or 3am? - That's really late.
What were you doing?
I ended up getting off at the last bus stop.
Since I entered a small alley,
I didn't think the man behind me would follow.
He tapped me on the shoulder and asked,
"Where are you going?"
I thought he mistook me for someone else,
but he continued to follow me.
- That's dangerous. - So...
I called her.
Then he finally disappeared.
You didn't know about this, did you?
I had no idea.
I worry a lot since she lives away from the family.
(He is worried about his young daughter who lives alone.)
That's right.
(I am sorry.)
She tried different things out of her love for Kang Nam.
She said she needs to be on his level.
- On Kang Nam's level? - Yes.
She attended...
a music academy for a few months.
Now, she is looking into an acting academy.
- An acting academy. - Yes.
It's not for your dream, but to meet Kang Nam.
It's for both.
- Really? - Is it your dream?
Do you want to be a singer?
I want to be a singer.
We briefly heard you sing earlier.
(He won't say more.)
Maybe she is acting that way out of deep resentment.
- It's a possibility. - That's right.
It could be an act of defiance.
About six years ago, I remarried.
Then she began to have troubles with her stepmom.
My wife is Vietnamese. She told her to come home early...
since it's dangerous at night.
Since my daughter is going through puberty,
she wants to play outside.
It was hard to get caught up between them.
Even when I was a little bit late,
she nagged at me and confiscated my cell phone.
My dad always sided with her.
- You were disappointed. - You felt like you lost your place.
I felt like I didn't need to be at the house.
You were upset.
It was a part of the reason why I left the house.
- It was a part of the reason. - Yes.
After living as a divorcee,
I got married to a woman who moved to a different country for me.
I thought my daughter would be more understanding.
You thought she would be more understanding.
I do live broadcasts every day,
and I come across viewers who have similar worries.
Since they don't have anyone by their sides,
they latch onto someone who was nice to them.
I bet she went to Kang Nam's concert...
and felt good.
It became her only escape.
(It became her only escape from the depressing reality.)
It worries me that...
you are someone she doesn't need.
You haven't sided with her...
or done anything for her.
She feels like she doesn't need you or the people around you.
(The family has deep emotional scars.)
Do you hate the fact...
your dad remarried?
- Do you hate her nagging? - Do you hate...
her controlling behavior?
It's not just the controlling behavior.
I hate the fact he remarried.
You hate the fact your dad remarried.
Did you ask for your opinion before he remarried?
"I want to get remarried."
He simply introduced her through a video call.
"She is the woman I am going to marry."
- It was something like that. - My goodness.
I got remarried...
because it was too hard to live alone.
Your daughter needed your care,
you should have paid her more attention.
We have...
a video message for Eun Byul.
Let's check out the video message.
Eun Byul, it's Mom.
(Her mom sent her a video message.)
Have you been well? I miss you.
I am sorry I scolded you.
I was simply worried.
I love you, Eun Byul.
(Although she isn't fluent in Korean, her letter was sincere.)
My goodness.
Eun Byul's mom sent her a video message.
Eun Byul, how does it feel to receive a video message?
You smiled and shed tears. Why? Are you happy...
to hear that she loves you?
Yes.
You shed tears as you watched the video message.
It will be nice to call...
and meet up with Eun Byul often.
I hope the two of them will be close.
You know, she moved to Korea only six years ago.
She can only depend on her husband.
She had to learn Korean with much effort,
overcome cultural differences,
and work to become closer to your daughter.
Imagine how hard it was for her.
(They need to make an effort.)
There must be...
some positive effects of liking Kang Nam.
Last year,
I decided to live as I please.
I didn't want to go to school, so I stopped going.
However, I couldn't help but worry.
"Kang Nam would be disappointed when he learns..."
"about my lack of education."
- It's a positive effect. - That's why...
I took an exam and got...
an academic qualification for middle school.
(She got an academic qualification for middle school.)
(We are proud of you.)
- Good job. - You are cool.
You should clap properly.
You need to be more expressive.
- You need to compliment her. - Clap.
(Good job, my daughter.)
You need to be more expressive.
Let's say Kang Nam announces he will get married.
- That will be bad. - What will she do?
- It's a disaster. - What?
(She becomes teary-eyed.)
She is crying.
- Is she crying? - She hasn't thought of it.
- My goodness. - She loves Kang Nam so much...
that the idea comes as a shock.
We managed to invite Kang Nam to the show...
- after much effort. - What?
- Really? - Really?
We prepared a video call. Would you be okay with that?
- Yes. - Okay.
Call out his name.
- A video call is nice. - Kang Nam.
- Louder. - Call him louder.
- Louder. - Kang Nam!
(The screen doesn't show a video call.)
Is he here?
My goodness.
(Kang Nam appears.)
My goodness.
Hello.
- She is crying. - My goodness.
(He bows to Eun Byul's dad as an apology.)
She is bawling.
She is crying.
- What should we do? - Don't cry.
I am sorry.
- Sit next to Eun Byul's dad. - Sit here.
- Here? - Yes.
Sit here.
- This is a problem you must solve. - Really?
- Eun Byul. - Hello.
- Hello. - Look at Eun Byul.
Eun Byul, you dad will be sad.
Eun Byul is crying so hard.
Her dad is crying as well.
- Everyone is crying. - What is going on?
- Why are you crying? - Why are you crying?
- Tell us. - Kang Nam.
Kang Nam.
I am sorry.
(I am sorry.)
- I am sorry. - My goodness.
Do you know who she is?
Of course I do. I see her often at the cafe.
Do you know her name?
Of course. She is Go Eun Byul.
How does it feel to see him in real life?
The bane of your existence, Kang Nam is here.
- He is right next to you. - I bet you want to beat him up.
I monitored the show in the waiting room.
I almost went home.
You were scared.
He hates me so much.
How does it feel to see him in real life?
Look him in the eye.
- Is he handsome or ugly? - He is...
handsomer than I thought.
Thank you.
- "He is handsomer." - Which picture did I see?
I guess you saw a bad picture of him.
- Seriously. - Be honest and tell me.
- Kim Tae Gyun or Kang Nam? - That came out of nowhere.
That came out of nowhere.
(Whom will he choose?)
- Kang Nam! - Thank you.
Shin Dong Yeob or Kang Nam?
Kang Nam.
(Kang Nam takes consecutive wins.)
He has the approval of Eun Byul's dad.
When she was struggling,
- you acted as her support. - That's right.
- She got a middle school diploma. - That's right.
You will get a high school diploma as well, right?
- Yes. - She promised.
(It's heartwarming.)
I got expelled in high school.
Why would you say that?
What will you do if she decides to be like you?
- I am sorry. - She will try to get expelled.
(Kang Nam is charming.)
For goodness' sake.
Eun Byul wants to be a celebrity...
in order to marry you.
If you have a dream, you should work hard...
for you and the family,
not me.
I left home to achieve my dream.
For goodness' sake.
The scriptwriter swore just now.
Why did you invite Kang Nam? A video message would have sufficed.
I always communicated with my parents.
My heart was always with my family.
I think this family needs to communicate.
- They need to talk. - That's right.
You should call her.
He needs to open up.
How often do you call her?
Whenever I call her, she says she is at the cafe.
Do you call her once a day?
- No, I don't. - You don't, right?
- You should call her once a day. - That's right.
(I will do my best.)
I want you to be happy with your family.
Please work hard to achieve that.
That way, Kang Nam will be loved by your dad as well.
- That's right. - I am really uncomfortable now.
- He is kneeling. - Please let me be comfortable.
(Please let me be comfortable.)
As for the cafe,
I will go if I have the money.
I won't go otherwise.
As for studying, I have do it.
(I will study.)
Study hard.
Please go over there and give her a hug.
(A hug of encouragement)
Work hard.
I envy her.
Thank you.
My goodness.
Thank you.
- I achieved everything in life. - "I achieved everything in life."
There is nothing else you want.
Kang Nam, thank you for coming despite your busy schedule.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
My goodness.
(He gives Eun Byul's dad a hug.)
- Thank you. - Bye.
Is there anything you want to say to your daughter?
I thought you would cause trouble in Seoul,
but you went to school...
and got a middle school diploma.
Thank you so much.
You know that I love you, right?
- Yes. - Don't you know?
Tell her that you are on her side.
Eun Byul, from now on, I will be on your side.
(Eun Byul, from now on, I will be on your side.)
Please send a reply...
for your mom's video message.
Upon coming here...
and seeing Kang Nam,
I realized that I was wrong.
From now on, I will be a good daughter.
I love you.
(Mom, I love you.)
That was cute.
Do you think it's a worry?
Since she realized her mistake, I don't think it's a worry.
I think a big part of the worry was resolved on the show.
Their relationship will improve with time and conversations.
Expressing yourself is the key.
You might think, "They will know what I want if I act this way,"
but it doesn't work like that.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Okay.
How many votes did the worry get? Show us the result.
(The result)
Did it get over 100 votes?
(How many votes did it get?)
How many votes did it get?
- 90 votes. - 90 votes.
(90 votes)
The title is "The Angry Family".
- "The Angry Family". - "The Angry Family".
Hello.
I am a 17-year-old high schooler, who is really frustrated.
I live with my parents...
and a 14-year-old sister.
The four of us must have been...
enemies in our past lives.
(They are a family.)
"Shall we eat out today?"
"I want meat. Shall we go to an all-you-can-eat restaurant?"
"I don't want meat."
"How about gopchang?"
"That restaurant is too far."
"Don't you know that there will be a traffic jam?"
"Then what do you want?"
"Do you want to eat out or not?"
"Forget it! We won't eat out!"
They are like a family in a sitcom.
"The Angry Family".
My family fights all the time.
"Mom and Dad, congratulations on the wedding anniversary."
"How many candles shall I light?"
"Don't we need 17 candles?"
(No way.)
"We need 16 candles!"
"Don't you know how many years we have been married?"
- Is this for real? - It seems that way.
Everyone is...
at each other's throat.
Because of this,
everyone in the family is incredibly sensitive.
This happens when we bump into each other.
"Why are you hitting me?"
"Why are yelling at the kids?"
"Gosh, I'm so annoyed!"
"Stop fighting!"
They are the angry family.
The script reads, "Shrieking".
"Shrieking"?
I really want to run away from home.
Please stop my family's tendency to fight.
I am from Gyeongsang Province.
A friend who is from Seoul came to visit,
but she stayed in my room.
I was like, "Come on out."
"I can't do that when they are fighting."
People think they are fighting...
because of the way they talk.
With this family, it's not a matter of the way they talk.
They use sharp words with each other.
Come on out.
(Whose worry involves a family that always fights?)
(Jo Young Joo)
My goodness.
Are the fights frequent? Or do they occur occasionally?
There is at least one fight a day.
You raise your voices at each other at least once a day?
In that case, do you guys make up...
after you fight?
We make up,
but the same thing happens again.
My sister suggested that we go to an all-you-can-eat restaurant...
she knows about.
However, my parents said they don't want meat.
"I don't want meat."
I suggested that we go and eat gopchang.
The gopchang restaurant is in Nampo-dong.
We didn't know that.
I see.
Nampo-dong is a bit far from home,
so we began to discuss whether to take a car or not.
Then we fought about whether there will a traffic jam...
and ended up eating at home.
You ended up eating at home.
It worries me that we continue to fight this way.
Why do you think your family fights over such trivial things?
What could be the reason?
We use strong words...
with each other.
My dad always sounds angry.
His tone is high.
I asked him to change his ways...
many times.
He seemed to change his ways in the beginning.
Then he failed, right?
He went back to how he was before.
Because of this, I wanted to escape from home.
(I wanted to escape from home.)
However, it worries me that they won't look for me.
Really?
(They are like that.)
What is their problem?
Her entire family is here.
Hello, Sir.
- Hello. - Hello.
She said your style of speech often leads to a fight.
I was born with this voice.
I can't change my voice...
so suddenly.
- That's right. - Right?
My wife told me to take out the trash,
so I said, "Okay."
Then she suddenly got angry with me.
(Why are you angry?)
- You just said, "Okay." - Yes.
She suddenly went, "Why are you angry?"
When I was talking to the scriptwriter of Hello,
she asked me...
if I am angry.
Did it really happen?
He is upset about that.
I don't know what people want me to do!
My voice is like this.
I can't believe I am here because of my voice.
Wouldn't you be upset?
(Don't feign innocence.)
In your opinion,
why do you think the family fights often?
I think 70 percent of the fights are about the children.
- The children? - Yes.
Because they only think about themselves,
my wife gets stressed out.
Then she takes out her anger on me.
You don't think it's your fault.
- No. - That's what you think.
Let's hear what your wife thinks.
I sometimes cry when I get stressed out.
(Hitting)
(Say it right.)
- What? - What?
She is angry.
- What happened? - She didn't want her to say that.
Why is she angry?
Will they have a fight?
It's okay. Say what you want to say.
The problem is my husband's say of speaking.
If he changes his way of speaking,
I will feel better.
Isn't that the voice...
he normally uses?
No, it isn't.
- Really? - How about your mom's voice?
That's not the voice she normally uses.
They changed their voices for the show.
I see.
Please speak as you normally do.
When I talk to my daughters,
I get so angry that I end up raising my voice.
They say a married couple has the same mind.
(A married couple has the same mind.)
- That's right. - They are the same.
A married couple begins to resemble each other.
Do your parents fight often?
- How often do they fight? - More than three times a week.
He always plays pranks.
- Who does? - Dad does.
He pinches her with his toes.
Does he do this?
- I see. - They must be close.
He tickles my mom, too.
When she bumps into furniture because of that,
she gets angry. Then it leads to a fight.
Your mom and dad must be close.
"It tickles. Stop."
I said stop it!
That's the problem.
Were you ever worried before...
because of your parents' fight?
When they had a serious fight before,
- my dad threw things. - Goodness.
He shouldn't have done that.
- He threw things, - Goodness.
- and my mom cried. - Goodness.
He threw things during a fight?
The memory is back.
It's very scary. Children can never forget it.
She remembers it even after growing up.
Do you see how she remembers everything?
It must have been very scary and tough.
Just by remember it, she cries.
She was very bright before.
Parents' fight can be worse than war.
I thought it wasn't anything serious...
because she was smiling as she was talking.
She has many wounds.
Big wound remains forever.
Was it that serious?
- At the time? - Do you remember it?
When I just got married, my friends told me...
to fight to be in charge of the household finances.
(To be in charge of finance)
Goodness. It's always about the finances.
Seriously.
To be in charge of the household finance,
they told me I have to win the fight.
You were trying to beat her in the fight?
That's what happened after listening to my friends.
What did you throw? Be honest.
- A rice bowl. - When you threw a rice bowl,
what did she throw?
She threw a soup bowl..
(His wife threw a soup bowl.)
(It's scary.)
She takes it to another level.
She takes the rice bowl and throws a soup bowl.
(Don't ever fight like that again.)
What do you think of your family?
Why do you think they keep getting angry?
Why don't you open the curtain?
- "Curtain." - Little girl.
- She's pretty. - How pretty.
- She's cute. - They only think of their argument.
It'd be over once they understand each other.
But they never understand each other.
She's saying the right answer.
Then do you understand and yield to them?
No.
Everyone?
Then who does she expect to understand and yield?
Everything is over once you understand.
But it keeps going because nobody does, and you don't do it either?
- No... - You don't even do it yourself.
When she has an argument...
with our parents,
she takes her anger out on me.
- Your sister? - Your sister?
(What's she saying?)
What does she say to you?
When your parents fight?
When I tell her to do something,
she's like, "What?"
She swears at me too.
- Your sister does that to you? - Your sister does?
(I do?)
- What does she say? - She's saying she doesn't.
She looks like she's being blamed unfairly.
No. When my mom and dad fight,
it had something to do with my sister.
When they fight, I'm just on my phone in my room.
They suddenly call me,
and suddenly say that I won't get any allowance.
It's unfair.
My allowance is gone for not doing anything.
After the fight, she enters my room crying.
She suddenly says her life is tough.
She got herself in trouble for fighting with our mom.
(She got herself in trouble for fighting with our mom.)
She was the one who started it, yet she says life is tough.
It's ridiculous.
So I said, "What?" because I was scolded too.
It was annoying.
Then why did you swear?
I said, "Hey, you" to her.
Then she swore at me first.
(Goodness)
That family is intense.
She didn't say what she did wrong.
Why would you blame it on your sister?
You're not any different.
When my mom and I have a fight,
I never drag her into the fight.
But when they fight, she always drags me into it.
- She also put me in trouble. - Do you think your sister is mean?
- Yes. - "Yes."
I guess you wanted to be here too.
Yes.
But your sister stole the chance from you?
Yes.
It's unfair.
Since when did the family start to raise their voice and fight?
It became pretty serious 3, 4 years ago.
Did something happen 3, 4 years ago?
It's not easy to say it.
It's a family matter. Can you not tell us about it?
Of course not.
- Okay. - It's tough.
Stay calm.
Her sister will say everything.
Okay.
She was going through a stormy period of adolescence.
She was reckless.
When she was in the center of the world?
- Was she reckless? - Yes.
But why does she say she can't talk about it?
She made it sound like it's a serious family matter.
Because it's embarrassing.
(Brutal truth)
She caused everything.
She's straightforward.
She knows it.
- It wasn't about the family. - Did you go through adolescence?
Not yet.
- She's going through it now. - How old are you now?
14.
What 14-year-old says "Hey, you" to a 17-year-old?
She took my stuff without my permission.
She never answers my call.
When I asked her after she got home,
she got angrier and asked why it was a big deal she borrowed it.
What did she take?
Eyebrow pencil.
(Eyebrow pencil)
(Laughing)
It makes sense.
- She's cute. - She's cute.
It's serious to them.
It's very important.
Without eyebrows...
- I get it. - They're so funny.
(You guys are certainly going through adolescence.)
Why don't you talk about the moment the family doesn't fight?
When they're not interested.
- When they're not interested. - Right now,
it seems very cheerful.
I'm always stuck in my room.
My dad is either playing a game or watching TV.
My mom plays a game.
And she watches TV when her favorite drama is on.
- My sister's on social media. - You all play by yourselves.
- Yes. Individual play. - Then...
Recently, I was very sick...
that I missed school.
After I went to hospital,
I was lying on bed for rest. I didn't even get changed.
Then my dad said that I was faking.
That's the worst when you're sick.
Of course you would be sad. You're sick.
Talk about when you were sad.
I was frying pork cutlet.
I poured boiling oil on my hand while flipping it.
- Goodness. - My mom came home.
Rather than worrying about the burn,
she got mad. She yelled at me and said I cause more trouble.
Do your parents compliment you?
I told my dad that my Korean score went up.
He just says, "Really?"
He's like, "Good job."
But how is that a compliment?
He doesn't sound like he means it.
What happens if you score drops?
I don't tell them.
(I see.)
I knew it.
- She's smart. - Right.
You only tell them when it goes up.
(Tricky)
I told her to go to hospital.
She said she'll go later.
She went into her room.
She put on her earphones and started singing.
How could a sick person sing?
I told her to go to hospital, but she wouldn't.
- I have something to say. - Okay.
I had no strength to move.
I told him when I have energy to go.
I sang after I came back from...
hospital.
That's not true.
It is.
- Talk about your position then. - Go ahead and talk.
She didn't even go to hospital.
I said she must go to hospital first before singing.
(He told her to go to hospital if she had energy to sing.)
"I'm sick. I will go later."
"Don't mind me." That's what she said.
Did you just copy your daughter?
(He imitates his daughter.)
Any parent would think she was faking it.
You should've told her to go with her instead of sending her alone.
You think you took care of her, but no.
That's not it. My oldest daughter...
- doesn't like going out with me. - Why not?
She said it's embarrassing to go out with me.
- Why? - When did I say that?
You said that before.
- "When did I say that?" - Wait.
- This is how they fight. - Tell us the truth, girl.
(Tell us the truth.)
Who's telling the truth?
- My sister... - Okay.
said she'll wait until our mom's home...
when our dad offers to take her to hospital.
She said she won't go with him.
So it makes sense that my dad would feel upset.
He asked why she wouldn't go with him.
When I tell her to go on a date with me,
she'd come with me to go grocery shopping from time to time.
But she only complains and whines for not buying her things.
We have a financial situation.
I want her to understand it.
- But she only thinks about herself. - Your oldest daughter?
Yes.
Does that make you upset?
I don't get upset, but I do say a few words.
You're upset right now.
- I'm not upset. - He's starting to get upset.
I'm just nervous.
Did your daughter disappoint you...
in any way?
She talks down on us.
They're both like, "What? For what?"
How do you want them to say it? "Why? For what?"
If they do, that's cute and adorable.
I hate it.
If only they would do that.
He's full of love.
If I ever play jokes on them,
they're like, "Don't, Dad."
They hate it.
What kind of reaction do you want from them?
How do you want them to react?
If I tickle them, "You're tickling me. Don't tickle me please."
(He's cute.)
But when I do that,
they're like,
- "Don't do it please." - "Don't."
They're like, "Don't."
Does your second daughter also talk down on you?
Yes.
You shouldn't.
Your dad says that makes him upset.
Do you know...
how scary it is when you talk down on him with your face closed?
1 or 2 years ago, I used honorifics.
Even back then, they weren't any different.
The way they speak was the same, and they kept fighting.
I gave up.
Since your parents don't change,
- you also didn't change? - No.
If you change the way you speak, it will be a happy family.
You just need to communicate.
What topic causes a fight...
in the family?
When I ask for money or...
when I ask them to buy me something that I want immediately.
They don't hesitate to ask for money.
They ask for money every time they go out.
- I got stressed out a lot. - I understand.
I guess you run out of your allowance often.
After transportation fee... I receive three dollars a day.
That's not enough for anyone.
- It's including transportation fee? - It's not enough.
It costs one dollar for taking a bus once.
- That's right. - My mom may seem quiet,
but when she's drunk, she behaves weirdly.
(She has a bad drinking habit.)
(I will reveal everything!)
She raised a new issue.
Whenever she's drunk, she calls me and my sister...
- and nags at us. - What does she say?
She swears at us.
She talks about money and repeats the same thing over and over again,
which stresses us out.
- Does she drink often? - Yes.
She goes hiking as she's a member of a hiking club.
Whenever she goes hiking, she comes home drunk.
She came home after midnight many times.
She didn't even answer my calls.
That's very dangerous, ma'am.
When my dad gets angry while waiting for her,
he takes his anger out on me and my sister until she comes home.
- Right. It must be uncomfortable. - He takes his anger...
out on her.
I never took my anger out on my children.
But your children felt that way.
If they felt that way, that means you did it.
When my mom doesn't answer my dad's calls,
he says, "Where did your mom go?"
He gets angry at us.
- The tone of his voice is angry. - "Call your mom right now."
I know I should've been careful not to let my children see me like that,
but it happened...
This is what your children are going through.
When their mom comes home drunk,
they get stressed because she scolds and nags at them.
- She shouldn't do that. - And until their mom comes home,
- He takes it out on them. - their dad stresses them out...
by nagging them to call their mom.
Your children have to endure it all.
They have no choice.
So the two of you should be more careful...
not to fight in front of your children.
I think you should make an effort.
We'll do that.
Let's start the guest voting.
- I don't think it's a worry. - You don't think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry either.
To be honest, I like the way her family members speak.
If she can see her parents as they are,
I think the problem will be solved.
- She just said, - She's not happy.
"You need to live with them to understand."
She's right. She has a point.
- After she get through this time, - Exactly.
- Teenagers are sensitive. - it won't be a problem.
If they hear what each other thinks, I believe...
- they can resolve the problem. - Right.
(You need to live with them to understand.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Please say something to your wife and your daughters.
Young Joo, you know...
that I love you very much, right?
(It makes her cringe.)
I love you.
(Young Joo, I love you.)
He's so cute.
Ma'am, you should say something too.
I'll be more careful from now on,
so don't be too stubborn.
I'm a little stressed too because you throw a tantrum so often.
You know that I love you, right?
- My goodness. - Nice.
Her family members seem to love each other so much.
- Of course, they love each other. - Yes.
Let's find out the result.
The last digit is five.
Do you think you got more than 100 votes?
- No. - "No."
Let's see.
- 95? - Is it over 100? 45 votes.
I wish you happiness. Good job.
This week's winner...
is "My Husband's Affair".
Congratulations. The winner will receive prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("All Night" by Soyou)